I am the mother of Bryce, a loving and kind 7-year-old who attends Hugh Cole School and was diagnosed last year with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).
Children with this diagnosis need patient, caring and loving educators who recognize how difficult it is for children with this disorder to focus in a stimuli-rich classroom environment. My biggest concern as a parent was that his teachers might not be attentive to his unique challenges, and unfortunately, my fears were realized during his kindergarten experience last school year. I witnessed my son work incredibly hard to overcome his challenges and focus without the support from the kindergarten teacher or the aid of medication.
As Bryce entered first grade last fall, I hoped for a teacher who would foster and support his growth, and my prayers were answered when he was placed in Mrs. Melissa Velleca's classroom. Mrs. Velleca is a teacher who inspirers children by understanding each child's individual abilities and strengths. She provides a safe and non-judgemental place for learning, which allows each child to develop at his or her own pace.
Despite Bryce's challenges associated with ADHD, he has thrived and achieved above grade average performance in all core subject areas. His ability to perform at such a level has surpassed my expectations. Through the efforts and commitment of teachers like Mrs. Velleca, students can achieve their full potential at all levels.
To illustrate this, on March 15, a female duck named "Lemon" was a guest in Bryce's first grade classroom. This duck was born with a degenerative disorder that rendered her legs very weak and unable to support her movements. Lemon was rescued by a teacher who used an ingenious supportive wheeled-brace to improvise her mobility. Lemon lives a very full life in Portmouth with this teacher.
Lemon visits classrooms in New England as an example to both children and adults of how to transform a physical disability into a symbol of strength and purpose. The story of "Lemon the Duck" has been chonicled in a children's book that bears her name. This classroom visit illustrated to the children the importance of respecting the abilities of others. Each child recieved a book to commemorate Lemon's classroom visit.
I was fortunate enough to experience, along with the students, this heart-warming event. The smiles on the children's faces were precious, and their sincere concern for Lemon's well being was priceless. This type of uncommon classroom learning is a common occurance in Mrs. Velleca's classroom and illustrates the lengths to which this teacher has gone to educate 24 fun-loving students at the Hugh Cole School.
As I begin to look back on my life, I can identify teachers who inspired me and were instrumental in my development. For my son, Bryce, that experience has happened this year in a very special class with a very special teacher. I am confident that when Bryce looks back on his early years and thinks about which teachers truly made a difference in his development, Mrs. Velleca will be at the top of that list. As this school year is coming to an end, the impact Mrs. Velleca has made on Bryce will carry on throughout his life.
My gratitude to her devotion to all her students, not only Bryce, is a testament to her vow as a teacher to have an impact on the lives of her students. The Bristol Warren Regional School District is extremely fortunate to have someone of her caliber teaching the children in our district.
Maria Costa
Parent of Bryce Chace
1st grader at Hugh Cole School
Alexander Nestoiter
7:24 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
For Bryce's mom: Put a nice, small, balance beam in your child's room, and watch as he improves. Note, don't make fuss about it, do not tell him to walk on it. Bryce will figure this out on his own and have fun with it. While it will remain fun for him, it will also a power therapy that creates vestibular stimulation, which, in turn, speeds up the brain, memory, and sensory processing and integration. This is how the inner ear works.
Maria Costa
10:06 am on Sunday, June 10, 2012
Dear Alexander,
Thank you for taking the time to send a comment. I greatly appreciate your advise.
Pirate Mommy
12:27 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
SPECAIL NEEDS MOM ( a look inside)
You may think us "special moms" have it pretty rough.
We have no choice. We just manage life when things get really tough.
We've made it though the days we thought we'd never make it through.
We've even impressed ourselfs with all that we do.
We've gained the patience beyond measure, Love we never dreamed of giving.
We worry about the future but know this "special life's worth living.
We have bad days and hurt sometimes, but we hold our heads up high.
We feel joy and pride and thankfulness more often than we cry.
For our kids, we aren't just supermoms, No, we do so much more.
We are cheerleaders, nurses, and therapists who don't walk out the door.
We handle rude remarks and unkind stares with dignity and grace.
Even though the pain they bring cannot be erased.
Therapises and treatment routes are a lot of us to digest.
We don't know what the future holds but give our kids the best.
None of us can be replaced, so we don't get many breaks.
It wears us out, but to help our kids, we'll do whatever it takes.
We are selfless, not by choice, you see. Our kids just have more needs.
We're not out to change the world, but want to plant some seeds.
We want our kids accepted. That is really is our aim.
When we look at them we just see kids. We hope you do the same.
~written by April Vernon
Maria Costa
10:04 am on Sunday, June 10, 2012
Dear April,
This is the most touching poem I have ever read. I am humbled by such a beautiful comment. I greatly appreciate you taking the time to share it with me on behalf of my pride and joy, Bryce thank you very much.
Fondly,
Maria
Proud Mom of Bryce
Maria Costa
10:15 am on Sunday, June 10, 2012
Dear April,
This is the most touching poem I have ever read. I am humbled by such a beautiful comment. I greatly appreciate you taking the time to share it with me on behalfof my pride and joy, Bryce thank you very much.
Fondly,
Maria
Proud Mom of Bryce
Pirate Mommy
1:06 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Maria, my daughter is in Mrs. V's class with Bryce and she tells me how much fun she has with him. I can understand your struggles since I have a profound handicapt son who needs so much support. My brother has ADHD and Asburger's and growing up with him with difficult in the 1970's when being different was so misunderstood. Your son is so lucky to grow up in a time when people are more supportive. Thank-you for doing so many nice things for the kids, my daughter tells me your the most generous mom!
Maria Costa
10:14 am on Sunday, June 10, 2012
Dear Pirate Mommy,
Thank you for your kind words. Mrs. Velleca is an "Outstanding Teacher" and deserves so much recognition ~ she makes every child in her class feel important and gives them the necessary tools to succeed at all levels and abilities.
Bryce is a happy kid who loves all his classmates and being in school. It has been my pleasure rewarding the kids with some fun stuff for all their hard work and achievements!
I truly admire your love, dedication & support to your son and his needs. No greater love is that shared by a parent and their children. He is so fortunate to have an amazing mom like yourself.
Fondly,
Maria
Proud Mom of Bryce